The Anti-Feminist Feminist

The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines feminism as “The theory of political, economic, and social equality of the sexes.” By this description, I should identify myself as a feminist, but modern-day feminism has taken a different path that I cannot relate to.

Should women have the right to vote? Absolutely. Should women be able to attend college? Of course. Should women be able to choose a career and be compensated based their level of expertise? Yes. All of this and more is available to women across this nation. We are free to be successful, career-driven females or nurturing stay-at-home moms or both. These are basic rights in our society, but not in many other societies around the world. American women take for granted all the privileges that we have inherited from people like Susan B. Anthony, Alice Paul, and Elizabeth Cady Stanton who began the fight for our voices to be heard.

The “Women’s Right’s Movement” was and is very necessary, but what do you do when you have fought and won? History has done most of the work for us. I am not so naïve to believe misogyny has been completely eradicated or that some men will never refer to you as a “crazy woman driver”, but women have much more of an upper hand than we give ourselves credit for. There are many places and outlets that are specific to women and their needs. More and more men are becoming stay at home fathers, as women decide to pursue full-time careers. A woman screams harassment, abuse or rape and often, the man is guilty until proven innocent, at least in the court of public opinion. A mother is still far more likely to obtain custody of children following a divorce. And let’s not forget our God-given right, that no man will ever be able to do, and that is the ability to grow, nurture and give birth to a life. The bond between mother and child that begins 9 months before it even enters the world gives us a gift no man will ever be able to experience. This quote describes how I feel perfectly…

If anyone remembers the television show, “Designing Women”, you may remember the character of Julia Sugarbaker. She is what my idea of feminism is…an intelligent, strong, quick-witted woman with a sharp tongue. She handled herself like a lady, but also never allowed anyone to control her. Julia Sugarbaker would never have reduced herself to marching around dressed as female genitalia, wearing a pink vagina hat, discussing (in detail) the struggles of having a monthly menstrual cycle in front of a crowd of thousands, if not millions of people. She had way too much class to make such a tacky display of herself. Not to say, she would not speak her mind if she felt compelled to do so. However, she always did it in such a way that she was not demanding respect, but in the end, you couldn’t help but respect how she presented her argument. The kind of feminism that doesn’t mind if a man picks up a check at dinner or opens the door for her. This wasn’t a “microaggression”, just a simple display of gentlemen-like behavior. It didn’t make her less of a woman, nor should it. Feminism does not have to mean that you complain about men or degrade them to make a point about how important women are.

As a mother of two daughters, teaching them to be strong, independent, smart, capable and compassionate women is my goal. I don’t believe in creating a victim where there need not be one. Be responsible for yourself, find someone who appreciates you and remember, it’s okay to be feminine. It’s okay to wear a dress and heels or spend an hour or two on your hair and make-up. It’s okay to be emotional sometimes and cry at a sad movie or laugh at a funny chick-flick. It’s okay if you choose to be a stay-at-home mom and raise your children, if that is what you want to do. It’s okay for you to take care of your future husband, if that makes you happy. And it is definitely okay for you to appreciate a compliment from a man without trying to find an excuse to be offended by it…because sometimes, it is what it is, just a nice gesture.

The Women’s Rights Movement has taken an ugly turn in our society creating more of a divide amongst women and less of a unity of strong females. It is “Mean Girls” at its finest. We are no longer cheering each other on, but taking each other out. It has become you must agree with all the things modern day feminists believe or you are out of the club. You cannot be conservative, you cannot be pro-life, and you must believe that climate change is more important than national security. Based on current liberal-minded women, my conservative Christian values make me less of a woman and my opinion on feminism is no longer valid or accepted by today’s standards…even if I still believe in the empowerment of every woman…not just the ones that agree with my perspective. So, now I happily refer to myself as the Anti-Feminist Feminist.

 

Nicole

6 Comments on “The Anti-Feminist Feminist”

  1. I am a man and I think I support all the things that you have said in this article. My wife is a doctor and my parents raised me to respect and treat women with respect. However, in the last few years observing the trend that women had been displaying started making me think twice whether women really deserve the respect.

    Every feminist agenda whether displayed on TV or spoken on the Internet,would divert only to an extreme bull-ism by strong feminist making you believe that all women are victims and all men are bullies and need to be punished. However reading this article makes me think that there are intelligent intellectuals out there still who truly understand what feminism is and are helping guide others.

  2. This is exactly how I feel. I have many modern day feminist friends, male and female, and they all shut me down when I speak my mind. So we don’t talk about it anymore.

  3. Dear Nicole,

    This article rang very true to me. I’ve been very conflicted about why I don’t feel good about labeling myself as a feminist or associating myself with feminist movements but I love being a woman and want all women to enjoy the rights that I have. I don’t mean the rights to more money at my job, rights to be promiscuous or vulgar, but I mean the right to work hard, the right to feel beautiful because I am needed, the right to feel confident in my uniqueness.

    I am so happy I ran into your page, I will definitely be back.

    Thank you thank you thank you for doing your part to spread truth. I am working on doing the same!

  4. Loved this post – hit the nail on the head. Feminism is so unbiblical. Came across your post from research I’m doing on different opinions on feminism because I too I’m writing on this “social movement” on my site.

  5. 1 my greetings . Again .The same story .I tell to whom didn’t know by it .hoping that you will tell by it .What I will say not only story but news also .. in spite of .I feel so disappointed cause no effect yet to all what I did .. but I try ..again and again till all know ..and my be one of whom read will success to do something .. what I have my friends not easy but fight against the great power of evil . Fight against Satan In same meaning .. The evil made himself a prophet in Iraq . Yes friends look at mazy silly . Fake prophet .and he established biggest net you never see like it. His net covering Iraq ..I don’t know who support this .net by money .He call his net some time organisation or . Chief of trib .or security group .or . Put himself on government or political ..Every day he have new lies …This style of snake change it skin .as the weather want . This Satan have a lot of money .And so high new technology . In his evil net .like satellite .and he broken all international laws .that prevent gangs from use new technology ..Please focus on this point so much cause it’s weak point .We can use against this evil net .If you can call all agents and tell it .by this .Also Stan have electronic airplanes .and he have so danger weapons .secret machine of kill . That Is mind control program . He got it from trafficking . And unlawful market . And because Iraq full by curreption .All this deadly weapons come with out any one know . Beside .3 the ignorant about this weapons .I mean no one believe by it exist .I saw this when I told many by this .No universities or health department in Iraq know any thing about mind control .and as usual Iraq government and responsibilities .open their ugliest mouths .to bones this Satan net throw to it .As price of silent . Price of blood of Iraqies people ..that died by this weapons . This gangs of evil .have four group those like servant of prophet . So loyal to him . He have computer .and he give his orders to his four group .kill or steal ..deform fame of others .damage any thing he want . This information so important .cause if you didn’t know .You will be cheated by this four group .thinking that those every one alone .or he lead himself .but fact is .All follow their master the fake prophet ….This prophet .have some one with him all time this is guy .and he give him authority to lead his four group .I don’t know my be he will make him instead .when he die .to lead this satanic Kingdom in Iraq .. .I wish tell you .about this false prophet ..more ..first .He didn’t appear .but use trick to hide himself and lead his four cattle of monsters or group .. He put him self in side the bodies of others .how ..by choice any body he want from every place in Iraq .as usual Iraq government will close eyes and mouth only open to full by gangs money .. He put spy tool of mind control chip .on others body .by 4 trick he will be inside this body see and hear what this body see and hear ..He use this body for few month then he kill it and take another .as Iraq people’s like sheep .to this evil .no one escape alive yet now from this trick
    Just me . I did .by chance .I don’t know how I cover this net of evil .but I suffer from Ray full my body .my mind nearly I can thing .But I must .to shed light on this night evil net …..so difficult that some one in Iraq challenge this gangs ..no one can stand against it .their members full security departments I saw this when I tried a lot to inform against this gangs …also curreption in Iraq .and this gangs have money .can sale any thing ..They saled my family and many of my friends and relatives .and make them dogs to the gangs …..before I complete I wish or I have some thing I need your help by it . Don’t worry I will not ask you to bring gun and come to Iraq to revenge from this gangs .cause it attacked France and Belgium and Russia and USA and Turkey and England .and Germany .yes this net of this evil did all this .. but I ask few fever .. ( please put this information with you as witness .and document cause I need . I am so normal person in Iraq so poor .I didn’t have any organisation in Iraq .also I am not chief of my trib or my family .also I am not work in security .or .political .also I am not in government .I am alone .I didn’t have any followers .or some one do my orders ..)6 this document so much important .If it be in safe place . Cause this gangs use so much lies against me .like it steal some one .And say they are belong to me ..or lie and said they are my organisation .or do curreption in any place and say they with me .. and I am just normal person represent my self only .so poor .didn’t have any money I can saled gun to defend on my self .those shot me .Also their gangs provoke and they know very well I am alone and so poor .. no one refuse what this gangs want .I did .But yet now I pay a lot as charge this satanic net have arms every where .It can reach to any one on Iraq ..By they Way its now spy on me .This mean they know all what I said to you .but don’t worry . I will solve this .first this message I will not send another to you .I mean when you got it forget me .Don’t send to me email or contact by phone .also I will give you good way to make sure about what I said .This will make you cover any one from this gangs will call you or send email to you to lies . The way is ( go or call the nato alliance .and ask from them to observe this place in Iraq by satellites . Iraq / diwaniyh city / afak twon ) by this way you will not need me or any one .All things will be so clear .Some suggestions .If you can do . Tell Vatican by this false prophet in Iraq and his net or gangs .tell him that this evil say he know hide things like [email protected] like god. Also tell him that this evil give his orders to the four group that he have to attack francs and Belgium and Russia and USA and Turkey .Germany .England . . Then he give forgiveness to whom did . I wish the voice of Vatican will be high. .. also try with Un tell them . And every one you think he will be useful .This gangs must be naked .shed light on it .This gangs use cheat and decieve .They kill some one and cry on him . Four group like seed of evil .their lies no equal ..no trust by this net . It’s circle of lies .closed itself .mad lake if you walk on you will sink .One so evil person I don’t know exactly what is his background but he is intelligent officer .and the guy also work in security .you see this net leaded by security not civil .The evil make himself as prophet .and hide himself ..and lead his gangs by his computer
    All his four group .wait his order no one refuse .. This gangs have many faces .If one want punish it .He will face big problems .For example .If you ask one of his gangs who are you .He will say they are organization .but he is lie .cause all organisations in Iraq have department .This responsible if any organisation break the laws . I inform this department but nothing happened to this net .also if you get another one .He will say they are trib. And all this laws tribal .but also he is lie .no chief of any trib hide himself and use bodies of others to lead his trib .. 8 and no chief of trib divided his trib .guys and not guys .or small and big .also in all world people In county side famous by their high manner and good behaviour .but those not .also no chief of trib put a guy as his right hand to help him to lead his trib ..and no chief of trib divided his trib to four group .Each one work alone .but all under his orders and his guy .you see no way they are gangs only .out of any laws .whom lead it work in security .I don’t know exactly did their members know that their false prophet work in security or not .He and his guy .by the way all Iraq problems and hunger and curreption .violent sector and hatness .and steal .This net of Satan behind it .Now let me give you funny joke .do you hear by saying said your money fly upon you and your pocket empty .This what happened here in Iraq .people’s suffer from poor .but electronic airplanes .fly upon their heads .And they watch .from where this gangs of Satan bring money to get this electronic airplanes .an swear .from the blood of iraqi people’s .no body open his mouth .from fair .also by their money this gangs bring bullet to shoot them .I mean the mind control weapons .This gangs kill with out any mercy by so evil hide way .people’s fallen by deadly diseases .heart attack and artery .stomach .suicide .crazy .else .look at this gangs what it doing ..Satan by his four group play as he want .and made Iraq like his snake nest .He and his9 and his guy .Full responsibility .about all Iraq problems .This net is plague on Iraq body .its school of thief’s and criminals .recruited people’s .to graduate as gangs .any one want to be head of gang he will go to them .and knee to this evil announce his loyalty to him .He will get money and training .to be head of gang. And his name will be in red names .In Satan record .All four group in this record file .about me I am nothing in Iraq just simple person I been like this and I still .I never said I know hide things or I give forgiven .I didn’t have any relation with this gangs . In spite that this evil cheated a lot of people from whom I know from friends or relative .but I warn them .saying they is evil spy on me and I am just normal person .I don’t have any organisation. Or any position .be car fully .I didn’t record any one or give orders .when I Eaat or drink or take money or things .or visit any one .Or think .or talk or see or hear .also I represent my self .else .by this I warn others if they take by it or not I do what I saw it true ..and legal .cause I know my self .I know I am nothing in Iraq .just so simple person only .All whom faked pictures to me they are from those four group of Satan net and his evil guy .I am so poor also .I told Un about this evil net and about they tried to use my body .by putting spy tool on me .I am not lead any one from this gangs but who lead hide behind they10 the spy .what can I do to flee my self .or at least avoid any game from this evil four group .and evil and his guy .Some time I go alone to prevent who spy on me from see his members .because when I see them he see also and give his orders .This spy tool so hard to can remove it from my head it need a lot of money and I don’t have any money .also those four grip and their guy prevent people’s from help me .by money .cause they want their game and lies still ..by they way I didn’t give those four group any thing ..money or pistions .I didn’t .

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