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Essentially without science we can define women and men by saying women make babies and feed infants and men do not make babies or feed infants; freeing them up to do other things with their time.
Have you ever heard of evolutionary psychology? Evolutionary psychology is based on the idea that because science and technology moves at a faster pace than we evolve, parts of our psychology have been designed for an environment that no longer exist. Parts of our psychology have been inherited from our hunter-gather past etc. We will never know if the claims of evolutionary psychology are true or not but they certainly are fascinating to explore! Here are a few evolutionary psychology posts:
Men value looks and kindness, while women value money; here’s why!
Here’s the thing biology intended for men and women to have different focuses. Essentially without science we can define women and men by saying women make babies and feed infants and men do not make babies or feed infants freeing them up to do other things with their time. So males are naturally inclined to focus on other things (ie bringing in the bacon), while females are naturally inclined to focus on child care.
The most important factors determining how well a woman will do her job of raising children are how kind she is and her health which can be reasonably indicated by her looks. If she has big breast she is more likely to be successful at breastfeeding. If she has a wide hips she is less likely to die during childbirth. If she has great hair she is eating well and more likely to conceive a child and provide a good home to that child both during pregnancy and after. Similarly how kind a woman is to a man is an indication to him of how nice she will be to his kids. So women the most important thing about you to a man is instinctively going to be how you look and how nice you are!
Women throughout evolution have been taking care of babies so we are naturally inclined to be pregnant and tied to our offspring. So women are naturally incline to be impressed by how well a man can take care of her when she and her children are in a state where they cannot take care of themselves. In our past this may not have been counted in money though so we unlike men are not instinctively attracted to money but rather to access to resources or power that can be translated into resources and protection etc. etc. In today’s world this translates into money but instinctively it is still associated to the “alpha male concept” or the most dominant males, because they once represented good providers. So guys; no matter what a woman tells you, she is naturally inclined to be impressed by your wallet, your ability to provide her and her offspring and on an instinctive level your dominance or relative success when compared to other the men around you!
Men are attracted to looks and kindness in women because biologically good-looking, kind women indicate that having sex with them will produce a child that is likely to survive and women are attracted to rich guys and alpha/bad guys for the very same reason; biologically they think having sex with them will produce a child whose chances of survival are high!
Why women like bad boys and nice guys finish last (quite literally)!
Women are caught between two worlds. According to many theories on what early societies looked like, the early hunter gatherer societies looked like this:
Women got pregnant and had kids and mostly socialized